Oh hello there, yes you, my faithful and new readers. I’ve been away for a few months and I feel like an explanation is required, so here goes…
The last months have been packed with greatness. I am quite happy to say that I was too busy handling my business to write on my blog.
My life coaching course started in January. It is 6 hours a week course, 3hrs twice a week, 9 PM to Midnight. That was my first adjustment to make. Being in class this late could have been mentally and physically challenging for me. Surprisingly I did not struggle too much. I was too excited 95% of the time to feel tired. I love, love, love my course! It feels like everything I have been learning on my own via experiences, books and research were all coming together.
I have always loved listening to people but I wanted to find a way to use that skill purposefully. I want to help people dissect their challenges and find clarity. My class gave me the structure and resources I needed. I am ready and excited to see where this will take me!
During the past few months, I put some extra focus on my needs and my immediate responsibilities. I had no time for extra shit.. not at all. Meaning. I said no to everything I did not feel like doing. I said no to conversations, outings, text messages… Name it, I said no. I only did what I truly wanted to do. I trained my clients, took kiddo to his tutor, saw my best friends when I could, spoke to my close people on the phone, went on dates went to the gym. I could go on and on. I put my needs first without any type of guilt. I knew I needed to care for myself with a lot of self-awareness and proactiveness to successfully complete my goals, so I did. I could not afford anything else.
Self-care kept me centred and at peace. Everything I did, I chose to do. The fun stuff and the less fun things included. Whatever I did I made sure it was always aligned with me.
Anyway, I am happy. Talk to you all soon.